Timing . random thoughts

I have gotten emails & instant messages about "when...?"
Timing is very important in a lot of situations. You have to know how long you should wait, how long you should think about something, & how long you should stay in a relationship.
"..You are great at knowing when to do things & how long to wait for people and things to happen. How long should I wait for...?"
-Private {Email conversation}
Well, I don't think I am great or have perfected the timing of EVERYTHING but, I am good at it. I just try and think about what kind of situation it is and then evaluate it by that. If it is something that I would never waste my time on, like a little fight over gum, I call them right away and say: "I am sorry, I was stupid, this was a stupid fight over nothing! We should not be wasting precious time on this..." Yes, for some people it maybe easier just to let it slide and wake up the next morning and forget about it but, for me I am a conversation kind of girl. I like to get my feelings out & fix all the things I broke. I believe that it is good to get things off your chest. After a while you will have all of these feelings tied up into a big knot in your mind & stomach. It will make you just burst one day & start yelling or complaining about things from one to two years/months ago. People may understand but, they will wonder why you are talking about things so far in the past.

Let go of the past but, solve your issues now. So that in that time of something better you never have to say "remember that fight we never talked about....."
{so I guess this turned into two posts in one, kinda, I hope I explained and help some peeps :) This sure helped me vent}

story of a flawed girl {wonders}

Once upon a time there was a girl.

Her hair never looks quite right.

She says the wrong thing more often than not.

And she screws up on a regular basis.

She’s not known for being decisive.

She’s that girl who takes too long to pick out a simple ice cream flavor.

The one who simply cannot decide what to wear in the morning..

valuing comfort and warmth despite looking slightly askew among the Sorostitutes.

Heck, 90% of nights she'd prefer to cuddle up to a good movie/book rather than go rage.

She doesn’t go for the necessarily “hottest” guys, because honestly,

looks don’t matter that much when it comes down to who you will spend your life with.

She gets unbearably moody at that time of month.

She’s honest and unafraid to speak her mind, sometimes to a fault.

She doesn't normally fall for pretensions.

She was the farthest thing from perfection.

And she remembers a saying she has heard time and time again.

Good things come to those who wait.

So she waits.

But sometimes her patience starts running thin, and she so badly wants to quit.

Wants to just give up on it all.

Then she remembers..

Good things come to those who wait.

So she goes right back to waiting.

Because she knows if she really truly aspired to, she could find someone new.
Someone easier to get along with, someone more like her.

But how boring of a life would that make for?
Surely not the one she would want to lead.

In the end, every heartache and lonely night will leave her grateful,

 for all the laughs and the nights she spends with him.

And he will make her the happiest girl in the world, loving each and everyt hing about her.

And it will show her just how perfect he is.

And how glad she is that she waited and didn't give up hope,
yet refused to settle for anything less than the best.

  Perhaps happily ever afters do exist.

Word; good bye, my loves, for one more week. 

Sweet summer, awaits....