Timing . random thoughts

I have gotten emails & instant messages about "when...?"
Timing is very important in a lot of situations. You have to know how long you should wait, how long you should think about something, & how long you should stay in a relationship.
"..You are great at knowing when to do things & how long to wait for people and things to happen. How long should I wait for...?"
-Private {Email conversation}
Well, I don't think I am great or have perfected the timing of EVERYTHING but, I am good at it. I just try and think about what kind of situation it is and then evaluate it by that. If it is something that I would never waste my time on, like a little fight over gum, I call them right away and say: "I am sorry, I was stupid, this was a stupid fight over nothing! We should not be wasting precious time on this..." Yes, for some people it maybe easier just to let it slide and wake up the next morning and forget about it but, for me I am a conversation kind of girl. I like to get my feelings out & fix all the things I broke. I believe that it is good to get things off your chest. After a while you will have all of these feelings tied up into a big knot in your mind & stomach. It will make you just burst one day & start yelling or complaining about things from one to two years/months ago. People may understand but, they will wonder why you are talking about things so far in the past.

Let go of the past but, solve your issues now. So that in that time of something better you never have to say "remember that fight we never talked about....."
{so I guess this turned into two posts in one, kinda, I hope I explained and help some peeps :) This sure helped me vent}

You...You...You...

YOU MAKE ME HAPPY!

Everybody has someone that they feel this ^ way about

I mean we all have that one person who can change a day in a split second!

I love it when I do that for others. I love to make people laugh & be happy. :)

who doesn't?! I am very surprised at the amount of poeple these days that are sad or 

confused about a lot of things. Sometimes, yes, you need to stress out about it

but, most of the time just let things happen and relax. You are just trying to live your

life, I get it but sometimes you need to breathe and calm down.

Just think of everything you know that makes YOU happy, not what makes  your kid happy or you best friend but, what makes YOU happy. then, just go do that or just say "I need a moment, please." and then take that moment and just evaulate the situation and breathe. Sometimes it helps to write in a journal & jot down all your feelings

& thought on the subject. :) That is mainly what I do. But, if those things don't work 

then go ahead and try these out

{Via} I love these ones! :) so sweet & of course dancing helps! & Talking with some love is a great medicine!

{this is a great idea you can give it to someone you love or a friend going away for at least a week & you put little inspirational note/quote & some candy!

totally doing this for Angie & I , and the two maybes if they come, at Lake Tahoe! :) }

I hope this helps! 

Babysitting 101

i just love to babysit!!!! it is fun and so exciting and sometimes i have no clue what i am ding but, i always get called back for more babysitting fun!!! so here are some fun tips from my last 3 spaz kiddos my cousins!!!! (most photos of paigy b/c jack and charlie so fast and crazy!!!)

1: play any games they want even if u made it up and it is absolutly ridiculous!

Pigily Wigily!

2: let them eat how ever they want even if it is like a baby and U have to feed them!

and even if wen they do it they spill over...& over again!

3: take lots of smiling pics before the go nuts!

4: sometimes it is good to let them just dance around and spin in the kitchen!

5: play any game even if called flush????

last few my aunt took the morning after we babysat!

true,true,love,

hailey